Holiday Herald: Some people's idea of a beautiful tree is a real shame
Wednesday, December 08, 2010
By Mary Gauntner
Christmas for me is the smell of pine, a real tree, with shimmering lights, garland, special ornaments made by my children and grandchildren, and a few new ornaments.
I vowed a long time ago that I would always have a real tree, preferably one that I would cut down with my family -- a tradition that my family and I still follow to this day.
A Saturday or Sunday is chosen in December and those family members who are available drive to one of the tree farms in the country. We pile into the tractor-pulled wagon and sit on the bales of hay. The tractor pulls along and drops us off where the Christmas trees are growing.
It never fails -- it is usually the first tree that we like, but we keep looking. After a while, we usually end up going back to our first selection. With the tree secured on our vehicle, we head for a family lunch at a restaurant that is close by.
But sometime in the 1950s an awful thing happened in our house, awful for us but not for my dad. The aluminum tree hit the stores, stole my father's heart, and became a mainstay in my parents' living room.
I can still remember how excited my dad became when it was time to set up the tree. He painstakingly laid the pieces of the tree on the floor and set the main pole in the stand. Each individual branch would go into the holes. The tip of the branches sort of puffed out like a powder puff with curled fingers.
My dad sorted the colored balls and placed these strategically throughout the tree, alternating the colors of reds, blues and greens. But that wasn't the end.
He set up a rotating colored wheel with a spotlight shining in front of it. When my father finished with all of his tree decorating, he would turn off all the lights in the living room, sit in his favorite chair with his legs stretched out on the ottoman, and watch the colored wheel turn the aluminum tree red, blue and green.
He literally worshipped that tree. He gazed at it lovingly, just as I imagined he once looked at my mother.
I hated that tree. And that was when I swore to myself that I would never own an aluminum tree or any artificial tree!
After my father died in 1991, my stepmother still put the tree up for a few years. She loved it as well.
Eventually, she stopped putting the tree up and stored it. When we cleaned out the attic of my parents' house, I inherited the tree, rotating wheel and spotlight as well.
My oldest son always said that he wanted it. I brought the tree back from Cleveland to Pittsburgh and put it in my garage. My son was married at the time that I told him the tree was in a box in my garage.
He hemmed and hawed, and finally said that his wife would kill him if he ever brought it home. I finally threw it away.
The past year, while visiting my cousin in Utica, N.Y., and sharing family stories, I told her about my dad's aluminum Christmas tree. I laughed when I told my cousin about my contempt for that tree.
Her face was unreadable as she walked out of the room only to return with a photo of her Christmas tree. There it was in color -- déjà vu -- an identical, ugly aluminum tree.
A chill went up my spine as she whispered, "I love this tree."
Mary Gauntner of Franklin Park can be reached at mary_gauntner@hotmail.com
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First published on December 8, 2010 at 12:00 am
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